Robert,
We've noticed the same issue with OpenLDAP replication and are working with Symas to find a fix for the bugs. There's no current ETA but we are monitoring the situation closely.
Because of this, we are now recommending Gluu's fork of OpenDJ for replication in Gluu 3.1.2.
In addition, we're just about to release a new tool called Cluster Manager that simplifies the process of configuring Gluu for HA, LDAP replication, file system replication, monitoring and more. However, this tool will only be available to organizations with an active Gluu support contract.
If you'd like to discuss further, just [schedule a call with us](https://gluu.org/booking).
Thanks,
Chris